The success of a couple

I was exhausted after making a HK tour with 2 foreigners - Dennis and his wife Nancy from the States. But I learned a lot from them.

1. They have been married for 27 years but still look like newly wed. When we asked for the scret of their success ...

Man: I love going home.

Yes, if there is somebody always waiting for you after your hard day's work, why not going home? It's always a shelter for you.

Wife: We are best friends.

Yes, best friends never keep secrets from one another, and they share their interest with one another.

... and these are the reasons they can keep the marriage for 27 years, and longer.

2. The purpose of touring HK was to know more about HK. Dennis said, "People up there always say nice thing, which is good, but we want to listen to the truth and what people need. And that's why I will try to talk to those who are doing the business, but not the high pin people. I hope they can help push the business a bit." This is damn right. This is the mentality that I have been looking for from the management.

3. By the way, Dennis has his own rock'n roll band in the States and I have watched their performance on YouTube. It's awesome and if you are interested, just take a look...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Uesqdjw2wss

John Gray: 男女大不同

呢本係一本好有趣嘅書。幾年前我睇係因為我對心理學有興趣，但今日，我終於相信佢係applicable。

以前我睇呢本書嘅時候，focus只擺係自己身上：點解我無咁嘅reaction嘅呢？點解佢嘅reaction又唔同本書嘅？但今日，我從我親愛嘅老闆身上，「讀」到呢本書嘅summary。佢依家就正正將自己收埋喺山洞入面，作為佢嘅下屬或partial朋友，我可以做嘅，就只係等佢自己出關、浮上水面。

註：喺呢幾個禮拜嘅時間，我越來越覺得老闆大人將我當成朋友 - 因為佢肯嘗試將我當成佢嘅聆聽者；更甚者，我覺得佢似我個仔 - 而我呢個阿媽有「責任」嘗試為幫分憂。無論我當佢係朋友定我個仔，我會盡我嘅力令我所有嘅朋友覺得自在、適服、幸福 ...

我 ...

坐喺我office門外嘅小妹妹經常同佢嘅親親男友通熱線。雖然唔係好大聲，但我都仲可以完全聽到佢講乜。

小妹妹平時可以時時屎滾、日日扯火，但當同男友仔通電話時，就可以嬌聲嗲氣。有時，你都唔好話唔肉麻。

有位台灣師傅話我到今日依然孑然一身，係因為我唔識/唔肯向男性撒嬌。Come on~ 我都想有咁嘅機會，但苦無對象；而且我嘅性格唔容許我咁做 - 最起碼我過唔到自己嗰關。

不過，其實自己一個人又有乜唔妥呢？起碼到目前為止，我都仲好開心吓喎...

終於有覺好瞓

經過一個星期0000-0230，再0500至0630嘅睡眠時間，琴晚我終於可以一覺瞓天光。希望今晚可以繼續啦~

但我知凡事有代價 - 就係由琴日開始要不停返13日工，而其中兩日係苦工。不過算啦，就當係儲假等年尾放囉，唔係可以點喎...

人就係咁 - 要呃人，先要呃自己...